The Nurse As A Change Agent

Society needs to be slowed down. Today there is to much stress in the world. People dont get enough peace in theire mind and in theire body to relax so much that they sometimes sleep good on the floor in serenity. I have studied a lot. And when i went to nurse university college i read english and american nursing together with the norwegian nursing. And i found a book about the nurse as a change agent. That there always was work to do to reach perfection and solve nurse problems. I got ill of to much stress and grieve and knew that society needed to change. It was also after 9/11 and i knew the world would suffer from abnormal stress (war) and economical crisis. Norway face in 2015 econimical crisis and it will influence on peoples lives. It is hard times but it can be lived in a good way managing the social and enviromental problems with lower down goals, save money and with a trick of magic live more fullfilled. A crisis and also a illness can gives you new knowledge and experience to form a better life with that you get wiser and know that love is best to live for also from an animal. And in this case a horse with the name Quality Dreamer and in the everyday life called Camaro. I have to write a bit about the case and society first. I realised that people forget more these days. There is so many stimulous in the society from smartphones, computers, internett and music in phones and ipods. I realised for some years ago that many youths and people using ipods listened not so good. It seemed like theire hearing was not good. And they did not get all the information in a conversation. We need to listen to silence in the nature and have the music on a bit lower. I seldom play load music. People is formed by the society to always stay on top and be showed from the best side. It creates a lot of stress and people loan over theire ability to have a life standard to show to others. When youth walk in a jacket to nearly 6000,-nkr that is nearly 1000 usd something is wrong. Because a family of a middle class society dont afford this to all theire children. And you can get a better looking jacket for under half the price. The financial crisis will give mentall problems and lower life quality. And if we dont act now depression is the world largest desise in 2020 estimated by WHO. It is time to slow down as a good advice to make this planet a better plave to be for all living creatures on this planet. And we cant wait. People use more money than what they have and that gives mental problems like anxiety, depression and seveare stress. Some can get a so high stress level because of that, that it can be measured by the level of stress in war. So let the everyday war go over by forming youreself a better life by reducing stress and go by a good life plan. Where you set of peacefull time together with the ones you love.
The psyciatric problems increases in the world. And it is because of " world - stress " all the global society forms us and we need to listen to ourselves to stay happy, peacefull and mental healthy. To learn about psycology is good for every person on earth to know you have a mental health because we all meet problems in life and society forms us. But we can choose how we want to form ourselves in nearly all situations. We need to live in a speed natural for humans. We have different strenghts and talents and need to know that there are not any prototype on us. Only us together in this either we are alone or in a community. I understood as a nurse that the education started for full when i was educated that nursing is a life long education. You are finished as a nurse if you stop study when you are educated because it is a work of perfection. It need to be because an error can be fatal. There are not enviroment for errors. Many nurses goes over to the psyciatric field to relax, because errors there is not so bad to do. But it has the same skills for them as all the others levels of nursing. And the psyciatric is worse in 2014 than in 2002. There is to litle money given to the health care field and the people there dont understand good humans and in how to treat all the problems of life. We are all humans even a person with schizophrenia is normal. They have the same believes, needs and love in them as others. There is never a person ill all the time. There is normality in all mental problems. There is nobody ill all the time. Treated with love and trust all get healed from mental problems.
ADHD gets more of in the society and i believe there is no ADHD. Because i have seen children with this diagnose easen down and get very peacefull and social very kind towards others by stimulating them to inntelligence and creativity so they get out all theire thoughts. They need routines and good food and somebody thats understand that children are children and make jokes and flavs and sometimes take a walk on the wild side. It belongs to childhood. God forgivess all children always and also youths for what they have done and then the parents and society should be forgiving also and rather learn to laugh at somebody beeing a bit to joyfull or making a lot of fuss. Dont judge them but accept them and all problem behaviour goes away. I have seen this happening.
My son has alway been peacefull and more intelligent than me. To follow him from child to adult has been more developing and loving than going to nurse university college. Because my son wanted to know all about the world and the universe. He gave me questions i could not answear and i needed to study genious to give him the right answears. Our favourites was Leonardo Da Vinci and Albert Einstein. We laughed a lot and made a lot of jokes and played out all the time.
But the one who should give us most learning in life was a horse. Quality Dreamer came to us in 1995 when my son was 2 years old, and he was a dangerous horse with a temper and an anger in him that at the first time scared me a lot. The horse had a strong life will and it went over in anger. And anger is not treated by medications it is often a way to protect themselves anger is shown. And it needs to be taken away with not doing anything and to use love, calm words and trust. It makes the anger go away forever. The horse got the kindest horse i have ever had. And to see a 2 year old master him in kindness and love and managing to work in the stable as an adult made me impressed. And the horse gave my son healthy selfconfindence in an early age.
I called the horse schizophrenic and i knew that all his mental set about society and humans was wrong. But maybe once they was right ? I never got to know what happened to him but he was mistreated. And fought for his life even if there was nothing to fight about. I needed to give him time and  learn how to be a horse again and not a race horse. The horse grew beautiful and kind in love and got healed from all mental problems and a very intellligent horse personality got revealed. He one day after a year got his runner instinct back and runned of with me at a beach. He wanted to race again, and he was a us Hanover horse and runned so fast that i nearly throw up in fear. I had never experienced more power in action. He was incredible strong. I called that " Hidden Run. " And i guessed the horse understood that we needed money, he was breeded after very good horses and was a big horse. I never started him because i did not wanted to get him back to what ruined him. But i think today the horse knew what he did, he wanted back, And i write also a novel about this horse. It broke my heart to sell him when i started at nurse university college. My son runned after the trailer and yelled : " Dont leave me Camaro. " And my heart broke. It has never healed from that situation and i got to know after some years that the horse always looked for a litle boy and he got agressive again and died in grieve missing his best friend, my son Kristoffer.
Life dont give you alway the right choises. You think you do the best thing and you really dont. I wonder if i had been more happy working at a gasoline station and having my child and my horse together with me. But youre journey of life alway tends to give you surprises. I have had a very good life even though i have been ill. But the only thing making me ill is bad treatment and medication not working. I am healed again and working for that people shall have a good life finding inner peace and theire talents because then health comes in as a product of this. People take the right choises presented to a good life and lead to reality by people knowing what is happening.
Financial Crisis is a challenge to turn around and next year will be a tougher year for Norway. But poverty can be a blessing that you put more value on life and on presents and things. And there is really more time to play and have fun than with people working a lot. I know someone who went to a slum and a very poor place in Kenya, and he got surpirised because he had never seen more happy children. There is time for love in this places and not only more stuff and things.
I hope that you think about youre life and protect youre mental health so you stay healthy youre whole life. Because the world society is rougher than in years. Stay together with people that loves you and know that to take education as a health care worker gives you a lot of joy and gives you reason to live good. It forms you to a better person if you understand youre patients as equal to you and that many of them is wiser than you and has lived longer.
A patient on 92 years old teached me about lifestyle and food. He was a the strongest man i had ever seen and was stronger than many 20 year old. We got a good relationship and i lived after his advices and is extremly strong in my body. When i moved from my house i lifted the same things as a trained man :-) I am also writing a book about this. So people can get inner peace by eating the right stuff and stay healthy and strong on simple basic life rules and live a long and happy life. It is also to the story that the good man giving me advices about life also smoked all his life. He lived to be 97 years old. And if i get the same age i will be more than happy.
So to all people. Know that life heals you with giving you alway option to chose. So use reason and create youre best life in love to other people. You get so much back and if you still feel alone. Walk to a stable and learn how to ride. A horse lifts you over all the problems in the world and uses his life to carry you. So love the horses. They needs us also :-) In memory of Quality Dreamer that saves my life even today :-)
Have a loved life :-)
" There is alway a sullution - have alway hope and if you lose it - there is God. "